In the aftermath of the September 11 highjackings, loss of life,
and destruction seen and heard over and over around the nation and
the world, persons who are concerned with the welfare of children,
in particular, may be searching for ways to help children and youth
cope with the magnitude of such tragedy.
Child League Welfare of America (CWLA) leadership noted in a message
to all staff, "What we gathered from Internet sites or heard on
radio broadcasts, and later saw on television left us with feelings
of confusion, horror, helplessness, fear, anger, and a profound
sense of sadness and loss. This tragedy will affect each of us in
a different manner, but none of us should have to go through this
alone. As is true in so many aspects of our lives, our strength
lies in our connections to others. Together--with family, friends,
neighbors, and co-workers--we can work through this disaster and
emerge as a stronger society. We are already seeing signs of that
stronger sense of "us" in how we are reaching out to take care of
each other, both within the League family and elsewhere."
Numerous Internet resources are available to assist families,
teachers, friends, and youth workers to helping children with their
reactions to the traumatic events they have now heard and seen repeatedly
on television. Indeed, the news organizations themselves are providing
information on their websites to help children deal with the facts
and images of disaster.
Helping
Children After a Disaster, a fact sheet by the American Academy
of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, notes that a child's reaction
to a catastrophe depends on the parents' responses, how much the
child has seen, and the age of the child. In the Facts for Families
series, Number 36 notes changes in a child's behavior that may indicate
more serious reactions to violence and refers to other topics in
the series as well as recommended readings. The 81 Fact Sheets are
available in English, Spanish, German, and French.
The Parent Encouragement Program website offers suggestions for
helping children cope with this specific tragedy at Parent
Encouragement. Recommendations include being available, monitoring
the news coverage children watch, communicating to interpret children's
observations, reassuring children, continuing routine schedules,
focusing on what can be done for others.
Although the focus of many activities and priorities of both individuals
and government may have changed in a single day, CWLA colleagues
are responding to this awful series of events with a revulsion that
is being balanced by a consistent level of compassion. It is now
even more important for us to support each other and to stay focused
on our mission of making this a better world for children. That
challenge may have become more difficult, but our resolve has grown
stronger.